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Love Outside The Box - A Guide To Self Love

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Join author and relationships expert Deane Thomas as he encourages readers to begin their journey toward satisfying and permanent love of self -- so essential for day-to-day living and happiness.. You’ll learn how self-love is every person’s right, and how we are born with it. Find out why it is that, for most of us, self-love seems to get lost along the way as we focus more on others’ needs at the expense of our own. “Love is an essence that lives within each of us -- very pure and very real,” the author says. Learn how to find your own “Twin Soul,” and begin experiencing that deep-down feeling of completion that only comes when a relationship is truly grounded in love. This book offers solid advice and concrete commentary on how your feelings of self-love might have become buried over time and what to do to reclaim it. Remember. Love begins and ends with each of us. It is an amazing energy that should be shared without condition or expectation. Learn to look in a mirror and love what you see each day. Love Outside the Box will help you do that.

Deane Thomas
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Having chosen, many aeons ago, to be born into a family that would lead me to the man I am today, I view my time here today as a privilege. Whilst I am truly grateful to my parents for bringing me into this world, I would not wish the experiences that my siblings and I went through on anyone.

We choose to navigate through life based on what our families or society say we should be doing – we are programmed from the day we are born. The journey of life is somewhat more difficult for those who have suffered at the hands of those we are supposed to look up to and love.

I question how one can share a love for someone or somebody who has inflicted abuse, harm or irreversible damage, physically and psychologically. It does not matter who they are, family member, school teacher, official, or employer, they simply have no entitlement to it.

The basis of any man’s life begins long before he is conceived in the womb, it is this that I believe, and that which humanity has lost sight of. As we meander on our life journey, many situations will be presented that require us to take a good long look at what we are doing, or where we are going. For a proper answer, we need to be in complete harmony with our soul.

Most will not be able to be in harmony with their soul until a life-changing set of circumstances will force them to stop, look and listen. This situation may be in the form of a bereavement, a relationship breakup, car accident, near death experience, or something as serious. The untimely event will cause you to question every aspect of your life – it is this event that is the key to unlocking the inner truth craving to be freed.

Your true authentic self is visible during times of vulnerability. When you reach that point, you will make a conscious decision – to explore and use the hidden keys you possess to unlock the inner truth or to continue in life believing you know who you really are.

The fundamental interpretation of love is so flawed these days with such a disposable society. Love is all about attachment, need, filling gaps, or underlying issues within oneself. Love does exist in each and every one of us, it is really recognising the essence we possess inside is real and true.

The circle of life is inevitable. One day you will stop, look and listen to your soul – and begin to peel back the layers to the core of yourself, whether that is today, tomorrow, this year, or the next. The choice remains yours to make when you feel the time is right.

Your free will and truth are yours, and only yours. No one else has ownership over them. Deciding to change your life for a higher purpose, or calling is not something for everyone, but I close in saying that love is for everyone. We are all One. True or unconditional love is given and received freely, no limits or boundaries to it – Love just is. Pure and simple, from the soul, in timeless motion for all to share and enjoy!

In this guide, I will share my life experiences, and share life-changing actions that have allowed me to embrace the true essence of love, and how unconditional love can transform the way in which you live your life. Today I can truly say I now understand the meaning of unconditional love.

In Love Always


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