The codependent

One day I was out and about I seen one of the home boy I grew up with
lived not too far
We
Chilled we Bragged
about the glory day celebrated trade numbers and I went home .

A few months
went bye
I seen him again and he
asked. Why haven't
been bye or called?
like we use to do!
"I told him well "
We friends I don't have
to call you or seek validation on our friendship !

Plus I like being able to drop some mental stress off on and get a good honest opinion with no judgment.
Then he said you know what ?
all people that keep
calling checking up on you are using you.
if you notice any body
that's working, in there fashion....
that's able to
take care of themself
don't get mad, or attack the person when they don't got time for them or do what you think they should do for them .

That's called outcome dependence...
When you a person don't pick up the phone or do what you think they should do for them because you know them! That's called parasites a host that cant survive on its own,

A herb a plant with a weak spine. They are narcissistic they want to blame you for everything they doing because it's always some else fault .
In reality everyone has their mind God gives us all free will !
So
While you ripping and running
burning bridges on the way up!
Be careful of the bridge you burn!
Because never know what bridge you going to need on the way down.

Bridges

I notice when a person realizes there life is not turning out the way
they thought it would be.

They figure they would have been farther in life.
but that dream has
passed and gone.
They start realize they turning out to be a bum.

When.....

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