Lesson Learned

What was the lesson , what have I learned a question I have been asked but don’t know the answer to. Could be a single lesson or multiple lessons. If I were given an hour to answer this question I’d simply say, what I’ve taken from this relationship was happiness , because I was truly. He made me so happy even on the days where I felt upset and lonely, he was there to make me smile, but the lesson I’ve learned was to be careful to fall so quick with words yet fall for the actions, words can be said and repeated so many times but are they truly meant. Promises that may have been made and delivered but the rest broken.. I can promise you so much yet give you so little. A lesson from a relationship doesn’t just mean all things bad , but can mean what can you learn for your future relationship, what can you look out for to make sure you stay happy, what can you protect yourself as well as your heart from, what can you do to make sure not only yourself but your partner doesn’t continuously make the same mistake. Another thing I can take from this is to be careful giving out a heart that hasn’t been fully healed even if you really like this person and feel you two will go far or make it, keep it close, keep that wall around it till you know and feel it’s the right time to let someone else help you pick up and paste back the pieces. Don’t be to quick to start tearing down your wall because someone so easily says “I got you , you’re safe let me in” when they just come in and destroy your very own well being, the trust, the very little love you had left to give, because at the end of the day, they leave you to rebuild and back to protecting and learning to love yourself all over again when you just learned how to love. Will I trust another person? Maybe. Will it be easy? Definitely not. Will I break down my wall completely for someone that “promises me the world” absolutely not. Will I just hand over my heart because that person promises to not break it? 10000% nope. Will I let someone come into my life and meet those important around me to just be another life lesson? NOPE. So here’s to my lesson learned to be careful who you trust and put all your energy into because it’s so easily to be taken advantage of and get the life sucked out of you. Literally. 

Lesson Learned.