Solitude: A Beautiful Freedom
Have you ever seen a white lily or any other white flower during night ? It still shines in the midst of darkness isn't it ? Beautifully, etheral to heart with soothing scent . Have you ever noticed that in day time every flower of different colour shines, shows its beauty to the world spreads it's scent everywhere and everyone too attracted towards it but if we will take the same situation in a white coloured flower then it's just get unnoticed as in day time it looks like too odd too simple to admire, isn't that ? But the same at the night looks magnificent and satisfactory, soothing the hearts and shows the path to the people who passed through it . Even the pulchritudinous rose too looks diminished before it .The rose can be the most beautiful and graceful flower in this world but still in the dark it's the white lily who take its place . Have you ever wondered the starts and the moon how it shines in the dark sky how it shows us the light , the path to go on , the peace to our heart ? It's just like the heavenly presence in this beautiful world right ? Likewise solitude is similar to it in the midst of pain, solitude is the only door to get the real happiness . It's the happiness in its own . You may think that how it could be the best when it can only leads to further pain , suffering and depression but we are wrong it can never be the pain , sufferings or any depressions as we are making it or proving it. Intrinsically it's the sky of freedom , peace and power. Have you ever heard about the proverb once go through it.
" Solitude in darkness makes our mind powerful ."
In real , solitude in darkness makes our mind powerful as it's the state where you have the time to invest upon your potentials and your value within . Here I want to attach a small story of mine where I can relate the same thing within.
So basically when I was in my childhood I used to long for friends as I never had any. Even due to that from nursery to still 10th ( it's really true)I too suffered from depression I thought myself as worthless in this world because of the loneliness. It's true that I'm highly suppressed, opressed, insulted , neglected ,mentally tormented even bullied . Due to it I even suffered from trust issues, even still now I have . But the thing which still motivates me is the younger me. Do you know why ? Because she's someone in my life whom I just can't forget . She's the best memory of my life . Even being a small child she really did something which I still wonder about . She's resembles the true strength within me . She's the one whom I love the most the one whom I admires , respect. She's not someone to think bout she's the one who made me, who structured me, my mentality my personality and my potentials. As a child she really did more than her best to make me stand here where I am . But unfortunately.......... unfortunately I just killed her, gave her the worst pain in this world , took her smile which she used to love and admire , I took her innocence , I took her childhood , her teenage her everything . Still before leaving this beautiful world,she taught me something which I really couldn't have got from anything or anyone else. She taught to fight not to quit , she taught me to gain experience from the past not the bad memories. The taught me to love and support from heart she taught me that life is too short to judge about the bad works of people , to observe their good works for which they are still admired , loved and respected from the bottom of others heart for which still at the core of dense darkness they shines.She taught me that the real motivation is within me and when I will understand myself I will be motivated for forever. She told me that I'm strong because very few can come to the stage where I'm now. She taught me the proverb deeply i.e.
" Self loves isn't selfish it's important ."
She taught me to love unconditionally, without any attachment, possessions, obsessions and successions. She taught me that moon is always alone but still it's the diamond at night . Moon-the one who pacifies, too go through clouds and gets lightless but still as like the proverb
" The darkness can be dense but never have the longevity in our life , Light always have the way to pass through the dark and it happens . "
similarily the Moon never stops. It gives us the light without taking anything in return . The ocean who takes the salinity of the whole world but still gets harsh comments for being saline and can never provide a sweet water to a thirst but still it never stops . In parallel, solitude is something like that which too gets the harsh words from all - that it's the pain , the suffering due to which people hates it down but in genuine it's the door to the real freedom . It's the freedom to one's personality, happiness, love , understandings, mindset and many more things. When I was a child I used to think that solitude is something too painful to bear , I used to think that solitude makes me weak , it's unlit my candle of happiness , freedom and especially knowledge but the true thing which I understood at last is that it's the
wind of calm and fresh air which usually takes up my pain , freezes the past traumas and on the top of it, it always pushes to go ahead not to stop or quit
, it makes me remember that I really came too far to quit now .
Solitude is never a cage its the key to the cage
. It is something which is beautifully written by GOD but was given the name of pain by people. Do you know why this happens- it because we just see it's dark side rather than the pure, light of it. It's the human tendency to see the dark side first, rather its beautiful side, just like the Physics . Most of us think physics as something out of this world but have you ever seen how beautiful, mesmerising, incredible it is even I too relate it when I was there in my childhood I used to hate it but then when I truly understood it I just loved it then I understood that nothing is this world is ever bad if it has some then it too have its own beautiful kingdom/queendom which we still haven't discovered. You have noticed the sky the moon the stars the planets like venus as a star, the commets , soothing right what are they ? The Physics its the physics which we just love to see to feel but sadly never wanted to know. Ever marked that the math , students hate it mostly tell where we use it, then once see your surrounding your room a cuboid , plates where we eat are circles , CPU same cuboid shape , earth a geoid , desktop some what of rectangle even see yourself head of circle, body of cylinder, finger of cylinder, hair of line segment not only that the whole world even everything is made of maths even a simple cell too. So as for it who made us give us the shape then it's just like a motherly figure which shaped us who loved us as just like a own mother who shape our personality. We usually think that after 10th or 12th we will be free of maths but we are wrong its arround us within us and it loves us. I know after listening this may be some may feel awkward or they won't accept this or they will feel trapped started panicking but I want to tell them that its nothing about that math is all about +-*/ do you know why because its the only way to find any answers for example takesquare root how we find it ? Still take the help of * and / , isn't that ? Even take any high order problem its still based on +-*and/ even have the example of area of circle πr^2 . Take any hard to hardest of questions in math you will find its based upon all this but what just putting us down is the nervousness, the scare, lack of confidence, doubts about our potentials , for nothing . We will know each of it if we try so .
Its all about that how we are observing and what we are observing like the rose or the thorns
; in thorns : the protection is given to the plant or the bood drawn
.Have you ever heard about"
OLEANDER flowers
" , it really looks heavenly but coming to its dark side then its poisonous enough to kill anyone easily. Whereas "
ORANGE BLOSSOM'S
" are simple to look atbut has the most dominating fragrant in the world. Wondering right why I'm saying all this ? It because I just want to interpret you a small thing that each and everything even everybody has both bad and good sides to look at but our life is too short to judge the worst that's why try to cherish the best. As per GOD everyone deserves love . Do you know when we are in extreme pain we have mainly three options to choose [as per us]
1) First to become a devil and start taking revenge
2) Become an angel, taking the pains and living life as pain is your only fate
3) To quit life
But in genuine solitude doesn't have all these options, solitute never teaches us to do the self harm nor any harm to others.Ever thought what real solitude is ? Solitute is like a portal which opens the door where the secret of universe lies. We used to think pain and suffering as bad but have you ever enjoyed it . Lord RadhaKrishna told that without pain there's no space for real happiness . You may be thinking that how to enjoy pain and sufferings when inside, its tearing you apart right? But the real thing which pain shows us is the real strength , the real potential which we have within , quitting life , being an angel or an devil is never an option its just a trick which our brain is playing with you as brain wants to live in comfort zone but when it come under the extreme pressure like insults,torments,bullies and all its wants the same peace , the same comfort to be in and as for it tricks you , hacks you to do something which your existence never meant to have . Just like Newton's first law of motion
" Objects at rest will remain at rest or in motion will remain at motion , any changes to it can too result in its resisting nature."
About death then it's not an option it's a useless , unnecessary escape from your life your pain . I too can relate you all that being in pain isn't easy but quitting life is not a bravery? I know it's easy to tell but quite difficult to live in even who are there in depression and reading this I want to tell you all that the darkness can be dense but not permanent . You are worthy of everything love , respect , kindness and everything. Your existence in itself is a real rare diamond in this world . You are not a burden for this world you are a beautiful flower of this beautiful world which should be cherished not be used . If people are using you if you are feeling materialistic so just oppose it and if you can't then remember one thing people use them who have the qualities to do something to make something happen great and do you know you are never meant for death you are meant to live to show those that you are more capable than they can think or they can be . You deserves living . If they aren't loving you then love yourself but don't quit your life.
"You are born to be real , not to be perfect"
Yes you are born to be real to yourself not to be perfect for others do you know what real love is its something in which your partner will love your real one not the reel one . They will never want you to change but they will try themselves to change for you . It would be wrong to tell the above lines but what I felt, love never insists you to change yourself for the other and love insists you to love them with their flaws not leaving it behind . You are not here living in this world to satisfy or to make anyone fall in love with you . You are here to make yourself bright, to do something for the society , about love then surrender to it, leave it , give them the space of their own . Love them don't own then or win them. We mostly think about how others love us but we usually forget how we love them . How much you will give efforts that much effort will come to you too. Do you know Mother Earth is a whole magnetic field in its own and remember as like the magnetic lines starts from north and ends in same as like that as you will do you will get likewise . May be I have told out of the topic but I just want to aware you that it's just few examples to make you understand what real solitude is . I know I have spoken very less about it but remember that solitude is the one which will open you the door or everything which you are revolving around .
The door is infront of you just what you have to do is to open it and enter it to the deepest and after that you will find the answers of your every questions you ever had.
