Chapter 1
Mothers are the pillars of the house , in fact the only place I call home is wherever my Mother is. NO one understands you better than your mother and no relation is better than this one. Mothers always pray for you and always support you even if You do wrong. The only reason my ability to hear is still here is so I can hear my beloved Mother's voice and prayer that " Allah khush rakhein and may Allah help you and may he always keep you safe". Everyone in the familly trusts me however the greatest trust gained is that which my Mother has gave. A son gains his respect , dignity from his mother first but if a Mother degrades their child and does not give them this respect and dignity then the child will be lost finding his own way. The next relation that affects the dignity and respect and honour is that relation that is with the wife/spouse. If a man and woman argue in their house but either of them runs to someone else and gossips even though the arguing is small and they belittle each other both of their respect ,dignity , honour it will drop . What you need to understand is that these values are great treasures. But Mom will never belittle you she will protect you untill her last breath . For now you may take her for granted you may argue but is there not the hadith of The Prophet (saw) : “O Messenger of Allah! I want to go out and fight (in Jihad) and I have come to ask your advice.” He said: “Do you have a mother?” He said: “Yes.” He said: “Then stay with her, for Paradise is beneath her feet.” My Mother despite me arguing , despite if I am angry or if I do something wrong always comforts me and always if I leave being angry with her or upset with her my heart shatters. Do you want your heart to shatter and break? I always make it up to her after. Look Mothers are the guiding lights of each and every household. My religion I learnt from my Mom, my values I learnt from my Mom and this spirituality and this path of Ahlul Bayt was not found without my Mom. The crown that will be on your head lets say that crown is called your Mothers honour , if that Honour if you let her honour fall and you do not take care of her then you will see that you have lost everything but if you have kept it safe then you have everything. Similar is the honour of your wife however when the right time comes then we will also write about this. But first do dua for your parents , always look after them and always keep their honour and dignity held high. I know there are people here without Mothers and without parents but to them I say you remember Allah is closest to those whose hearts are broken , I say to you come to me so I can embrace you and allow you to eat from the hands of my mother. For those who are orphaned my duas are with you and you are the inspiration for me , do not worry Adam (AS) is your father and your mother is his beloved spouse. You are seperated from your beloved in this life but beware this life is temporary you will be united in the next world with your beloveds insha'Allah.
