Men that use woman. Bonus edition

This is my list of what not to accept in a relationship for men and woman . This is not to downplay relationship but just to give you some insight.

First off remember everyone makes mistakes woman and men , but mistakes shouldn’t continue especially if those mistakes play a role in a relationship early on . Mistakes are a key sign to move on and if you accept something in a relationship be very cautious of whatever it is .Do’s and don’t in a relationship based on what I learn , Men that use woman seek them out now I don’t know what it is they look for in woman to know they can misuse you but what I do know some men will start testing you right away , it could be how you react to them showing up late to see if you choose to say maybe next time , decide not to talk to them anymore or decide to wait on them to get there . If there is a bullshit reason that could be the second test , now he thanks he can push the line on time with you for any bullshit reason. If he hangs around or still in close contact with his x bad sign run away if he doesn’t have children with her , him hanging with her will turn into a problem at the some point . Now me myself , I don’t like the idea of my man having female friends, If he says this is my best friend well she shouldn’t have a problem with making you a best friend too , get to know her , if she has a man if your man and her ever had anything between them in the past or if they have ever slept together, if he said no and she said yes problem , she wanted you to know and he didn’t most of the time woman will find a way to slip and tell you they been together even if he didn’t want her to tell you they been together , If she is alway making comments, if she’s always over his house ,If she is always whispering to him, won’t get out of the front seat for you that’s a problem and even a bigger problem if he doesn’t tell her she needs to get in the back seat .

If a man cheats on you, You should leave him but the reality is no one is perfect, so if you choose to take him back make him work extra hard to earn a place back in your life .If you allow cheating , name calling ,and hitting his test is complete, you a weak minded person, if you don’t let him go your heart will start making excuses for why he does those things to you . But if you use your brain you won’t except it .If he hits you then blame you for it he doesn’t love you Don’t think because he is so jealous and loves me so much he does hatful stuff to me no he just hates himself and don’t know how to Love a woman the right way .If you help him financially all the time , and soon as he gets some money could return the favor and don’t he his nothing more then a user of woman of anyone for that matter . Learn to love yourself first and then open the door for a good relationship because coming from a relationship like that takes time to heal .