Chapter 1
Start writting .Then everything is there nearby you, you won’t feel alone.
And sometimes you don’t value it.
Let me remind you of a little incident that we all come across,
When there is a power cut, what will you do?
You Yell from the highest note you got,
“Light the candle, find it ”
Isn’t it?
Interesting!
My point is until we need something we actually don’t care about it. We don’t need it, even though it exists with us.
Even if it is material stuff we never bother about it.
For people also we do such things sometimes when we need them we speak to them, if not we never care about whether they exist or what, strange right?
Sometimes people neglect their loved ones for no reason, because of the ego they have.
They think that they punish them, by not talking. But for what?
Thinking the person who is a wrongdoer will learn a lesson, while the person who thinks is always correct, never realize the mistakes of their own.
Without realizing the damage they do mentally to the other parties.
One of my friends was so stressed with such an issue for ones she took poor marks, and the mentor stopped speaking to her.
Even in front of her friend’s mentor has stopped answering the questions, sometimes my friend got humiliated and suffered mentally. Even though she has admitted her mistake of not studying, a lot of difficulties made her mind and let her sit for the exam, with flying results she got through the exam as well.
It’s ok to encourage mentees, but not let to suffer mentally.
THINK ABOUT IT.
If the mentee commits suicide after being neglected? can the mentor be happy?
We need to advise but in a better way
This might lead to unnecessary issues.
some cases are different.
Sometimes both the parties may not know how hard times they had to go through without each other’s support. But when they get to know about it, long gone the difficult times, and sometimes they may not bear how hard it was.
One of my friends had to go through a real bad time, all alone. I knew both very well, but both didn’t let each other know the hard times they go through.
Hard times come for all but sharing with loved ones makes things easy, if not mentally and physically both the parties suffer and lead to a terrible situation, and ends up very sadly.
Imagine if the person we love is no more and got to know the struggles that person had to go through? Just think about it can we forgive ourselves?
Understanding should be there. We live for a short while in this world and we never should leave our loved ones aside and live, even the silly things they do, we need to forgive and live.
That’s the art of living. Not the suffering.
Love all, that matters a lot.
