Introduction
For Katja, my beautiful niece and my inspiration for writing this.
For ‘little Fran’, who really needed to hear this stuff when she was growing up. And still does.
For the real Tanzanian Rose who lit up my life, and taught me to give and receive love at a whole new level. I wish I had adopted you. Rest in peace.
For my grandpa, Rupert Elliott, who left my life when I was eight, but whose love and guidance is forever with me.
And for all the children, and adults, who read this … may you go through life knowing that you are “good enough”.