My Biography.

My life is not measured in call logs or message threads. It is measured in silence, in the spaces between words, and in relationships defined not by closeness, but by distance.

With my mother, communication is a matter of necessity, not choice. If I hear from her, it is usually a short text about something practical. She never calls unless I call her first, and even then, the conversation is brief and distant. Sometimes she responds to me on Facebook, but only if one of my posts catches her attention. Months can pass without us seeing each other, and more often than not, I am simply ignored—while she prefers the company of my biological sister or her own solitude.

My biological sister is even further removed. She has never chosen to spend time with me—not even when I was first brought home—unless our parents forced the issue, which only made her irritated or angry. She pretends I do not exist. I have never received a single text, phone call, or direct message from her. Any words exchanged have always been filtered through someone else—my mother or my father, but never her directly.

Only my chosen sister is truly present. Living under the same roof, we speak daily about the mundane and the meaningful, sharing our frustrations and small joys. She is my true companion, the only constant line of communication I have. Her presence is proof that connection is possible, even if it is rare. 

This is my reality: distance, silence, and boundaries with my family by blood, alongside a genuine, daily connection with the sister I choose.

What you will read in these pages is not a story of reconciliation or easy healing. It is the story of what remains when the noise falls away: truth, boundaries, and the search for meaning in the quiet. My record is not digital, but lived. The absences, the ignored messages, and the rare, real conversations are all the evidence I need. 

This is where my story begin